On being unfun

Weird realization: I’m good at having fun on accident. I’m good at looking like I’m having a good time. I’m not very good at having fun on purpose.  The thing is I have shit to do, you know? So planning to do fun things takes arrangements and that stresses me out. Life lately has been […]

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The Desperation Draft & Grad School

I know that Facebook memories are usually just a reminder that nobody should have let 16 year-old you onto the internet. Every now and then, though, you get a cute little gem like this.  This caught my attention because this is what I actually want to be reminded of. Because, you know, I’m a self-involved Millennial […]

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The sound of (not) settling

So, there’s these moments, right? Little snapshots that remind you of something bigger. Weird little tipping points that are actually nothing, but can be applied to exactly the right situation to linger just a bit. Things that make me wonder why I’m not always as impossibly happy as I look trying to hoola hoop, and […]

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